Let me know that what is the true definition of a good friend?

I have more boy friends and they are keep asking me to have sex with them as they are my good friends. What should I do?Let me know that what is the true definition of a good friend?
Keep away from them! Far, far away.Let me know that what is the true definition of a good friend?
Whoa! Your bfs certainly do not fit the true definition of a good friend. A good friend(s) would not be asking for sex. Please do not do it, as you are not ready for sex. This is evident by the last line you wrote - if you have doubts, you are not thinking about the consequences of your action, only the possible immediate pleasure. If you ';gave in'; to them, how many would still be around if you decided to ';cut them off';? Guys talk and brag, so what about your reputation? Would you like to be referred to as the ';community lotto';, where everyone takes a chance? Or becoming an unwed teenage mother? God gave you a brain - use it.
A good friend is one who is positive, supportive, and trustworthy. The sex thing is a whole other issue and is more done in boyfriend and girlfriend relationships; real friends (or boyfriends!) do not pressure you for sex and they wait until you're both ready. On the flip side, you shouldn't pressure them either, just keep that in mind for future reference as you guys have your whole lives ahead of you for this stuff and you shouldn't waste that away by giving it to someone who isn't as special so early. It sounds like either they really like you and they're trying to be more than friends or they are all perverts. Besides that, a perv doesn't make much of a valuable boyfriend anyway, so I would talk to them about this and tell them a true friend doesn't really ask for sex and pressure you like that. Ask them if there are some other things they're feeling that they need to get off their chest and try to talk it out with them. If it still sounds like they have sick minds, though, I would leave them; be friendly but find some real friends who know that sex has more to do with honest-to-goodness romance than friendship. Good luck!
A true friend is one to be there. Someone who you can lean on when you're in hard times, or someone that's there to talk to you when you're at your worst. If all of your guy friends just want sex, it's most likely that he's using you. If you have sex with him, he'll probably end up leaving you, because that's what most guys do. I'm not saying you can't be friends with them. Just keep your guard up, stand up for yourself, and tell those guys what's on your mind. If you believe what they're wanting is wrong, then say something. It's true that guys are only after one thing, and that one thing...is not a friendship most of the time. I mean, in your case anyways. If they keep asking you for sex, just leave them behind because they aren't being true ';friends';. From my experiences throughout life, TV shows, and counseling (I know I'm young, whatever), friends are the ones that care about you as if you were family. I don't really think family wants to have sex with one another...if they did, that'd be very creepy. BUT, if you have feelings for one of the guy's, don't have sex. Go out...and save the sex for marriage. And don't just get married for sex either, because that would be very stupid....





Sorry this is so long. You probably won't even read it all. o.O
if you don't want to have sex with them


DON'T have sex with them, a TRUE friend realizes you are either not ready or you believe that having sex with them won't achieve anything different in a friendship. they are not good friends if they use anyhting in their defence like,





if you were my true friend you would have sex with me


or something similar.





its not fair on you if so.


:)
A good can never b such a prson difrent from u.he/she is always with.show u the right path.who is frank with u.cares u.never put any condition in front of u.





actually the question u asked is difficult to ans.when u will have a good friend the u ll understand it.its only a feelin not any definition to be put in words
Don't do it! they are using your friendship as an excuse to have sex. Its disgusting, stop hanging out with them. A good friend would know your feelings about this. THey aren't your fiend. A good Friend A good friend is someone who believes in you and supports you.A good friend forgives you and knows they are your best firedn without needing to be told. God luck. xox
If you feel like u r ready 2 then go for it, but don't let those guys pressure u in2 anything and just rember u should always have a tazer ready to taze them and then kick em' in the nuts really hard so they can taste em in his mouth and then call the police and chage RAPE on him or them.





Answer ur question


John 117:)
first of all i wanna knw how old u are....god r u some kind of a 10 year kid who doesnt knw wat sex is.....they ask u for this favor, u dont want it and stil hang around wid them.....i've never known friends havin sex n even if they do...r they really friends??????? c'mon own up that u want some too
Friends in need are the friends indeed. U should know who's going to help u in the dark nights of the life. There is no harm in making physical relations with one who is a great help in the darkest hours.
Here's a definition that answers your question. A good friend won't ask you to have sex with them!


Sounds like they only want to be good friends with you for one reason.
true frndship is not with ur body or some materialistic things but the true frndship need gud feelings for ur frnd and understand ur frnd in her/ his every prblm
you dont ask sex with good friend. If you have sex with them then they will be you bf, not just friends.
Let me define friend in my style.A true friend is............


Jo tumhe Exam hall mein aake kahe,';abe yaar kitna likhega jaldi likhega jaldi chal ladkiya jaa rahi hai';
TRUE FRIEND IS MORE THEN A BROTHER.
They are not good friends. True friend always ready to help you %26amp; not ask anything from you
helping tendency person is a good frnd
good friends are those who helps us in problem time and feels happy when ur on the stairs of success
A GOOD FRIEND never asks for sex...


just avoid them...dont give up..carefull..
wtf!!! they are not ur friends then!! friends dont ask u for sex unless u r a slut or a call girl!! i cant belive this!! this is outrageous!!